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Did not finish book. Stopped at 3%.
5.0
I obviously knew who Geena was from her iconic roles in Beetlejuice, A League of Their Own, and of course.....Stuart Little. But in recent years I had fallen in love with her character as Nicole Hermann on Grey's Anatomy so when I saw she had a book I was immediately interested.
I chose to listen to the audio version since Geena has such a distinct voice, it was nice to hear it all come from her. She speaks on so many topics, some make you laugh, some make you gasp in fear and some fill you up with joy. Growing up as a quiet young girl to branching out into the world as a model turned actress learning to take no BS, Geena focuses on the importance of speaking out for yourself and others. Dying of Politeness is the perfect title.
Graphic: Misogyny, Pedophilia, Sexism, and Sexual assault
Minor: Dementia and Death of parent
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
I loved Rory's inner thoughts, and I honestly found her hilarious. I loved the dynamic between her and her sister, Scarlett. All the other characters like Ash, Seth, Mia, etc were all great additions, all with their own unique personalities. The pacing was great, love how we started at Halloween and ended after New Year's. I never felt bored and it kept me wanting more and more of the story. I could totally see a sequel.
This is labelled as a 'dark comedic love story', which it's really not? I find it focuses mostly on Rory and her transformation both mentally and physically while grappling with her becoming a werewolf. Her relationship with Ian's is a fun bonus but there's not enough focus or depth to it for the entire book to be labeled a love story. Really, it's a love story with Rory and finding herself to be honest.
The one thing I didn't find so believable is the fact that Rory is on this work leave that lasts for months and she's only in her 20's. Coupled with the fact that her job is in NYC, and she happens to be at a high ranking level, I'm not saying it's impossible but honestly, her being a werewolf is much more believable. I don't think the NYC backstory, really added much to character.
The ending climax definitely felt rushed. Would have loved to see more fallout and conflict after what happens.
Graphic: Animal death, Body horror, Body shaming, Child abuse, Death, Gore, Pedophilia, Sexual assault, Violence, Vomit, Medical content, Pregnancy, Dysphoria, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Infidelity and Car accident
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.75
Her obsession with Jenny becomes really intense and scary. Very much stalkerish vibes. I felt extremely bad for her boyfriend and mother. The ending was really out of left field.
I thought this was going to be more lighthearted but it was really sad.
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Mental illness, Toxic relationship, Grief, Stalking, Death of parent, Pregnancy, and Alcohol
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Gun violence, and Infidelity
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.0
I thought it was interesting to have our main character, Ellie, try and chase down the people from her father's past to understand who he really was and why he made certain life decisions. I find that we like to see people in the best light, especially our parents, but in the end, they are just human who make complex mistakes.
I struggled to the very end to like the main character, Ellie. She's 24 years old and yet her actions are of someone who is extremely naïve and in the end I believe that doesn't learn from her actions. Maybe she did get that from her father after all.
Spoilers ahead discussing the relationship between Ellie and Lucas.
Am I the only one who didn't think Lucas even loved her? He lusted over her the entire time. There was no depth between their interactions. It was all about s*x, he constantly was telling her how beautiful she was in moments where she was trying to be serious. If he really loved her, he would've made the decision to leave his wife on his own terms, not Ellie having to bring it up or for a coworker to tell his wife. He would've let it drag and drag on if it was up to him. And how thoughtless of him to bring her to a home that is covered in his wife's things???
To be honest, as a man who is almost 40 years old, is almost old enough to BE her father, I feel like he preyed upon her naivety and age. I wouldn't believe a word he says, he never once seemed sincere. I am happy for Mina for getting out of that situation even though she's not even in the book except for other people mentioning her. I was seriously hoping for them to finally interact, whether it be Ellie fessing up or them meeting be accident.
The whole relationship between Lucas and Ellie is riddled with Ellie's daddy issues. The constant comparisons she makes between her father and Lucas is bizarre considering this is a man she's sleeping with, and I don't understand how she never really puts the dots together earlier.
I really enjoyed the side characters like Van, Colette and Jane. Larry's story broke my heart wide open.
TW: Eating disorder, body dysmorphia mention
I find that the relationship between Ellie and her mother is also very complex. Especially how it relates to the mentions of eating habits, body dysmorphia, fatphobia etc. As someone who has dealt with these issues myself, it's hard for me to fully judge either Ellie or her mother for their own issues.
Overall, I wish things ended differently. I wish our protagonist could've truly learned from the mistakes of her father and applied it to her own life.
Graphic: Body shaming, Death, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Infidelity, Toxic relationship, and Death of parent
Minor: Animal death and Miscarriage
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
5.0
The kind of dark that tricks the eye. Makes you see things where ther are none. Or miss things when they are there. The dark that lives in spaces you know you should not look, lest you catch sight other eyes, staring back.
I loooooved this. The story was extremely detailed and immersive that I could picture it all in my mind as vividly as if I was watching a movie. Not only is the cover beautiful but the illustrations within the book are gorgeous and are a great addition.
Very much gave Coraline vibes with the themes of the a girl finding a portal to this other world..
The beginning was a bit slow but once I got to the halfway point then banged it out in one night. Would not recommend reading in the dark in the middle of the night because I started to spook myself out, unless you're into that then go for it!
Graphic: Bullying, Child death, Confinement, Death, Violence, and Death of parent
Moderate: Suicide and Injury/Injury detail
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Graphic: Death, Violence, and Murder
Moderate: Alcoholism, Body horror, Stalking, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
5.0
Graphic: Alcoholism and Alcohol
Minor: Cursing and Death
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Drug abuse, Drug use, Misogyny, Toxic relationship, Toxic friendship, and Alcohol
Moderate: Infidelity and Abortion
Minor: Pregnancy
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
0.5
From the title to the summary on the back of the book, I went into this thinking this would be a combination of a dark but funny story as it is described. The summary initially reminded me of the You series by Caroline Kepnes so I was eager to read something along those lines but with LGBT and POC representation.
The "humor" in the story is riddled with racism, fatphobia and misogyny to the point where it doesn't feel funny or enjoyable to read. I was shocked at most of the statements made by these characters and their motives behind their actions.
For lack of a better word, it just felt gross? The overtly nasty comments about Jignesh's weight and sexuality, toppled with the horribly boring, racist, gold-digging and annoying character Charlie, made me mentally check out of this story very quickly. I forced myself to get through it.
The pacing also makes no sense. The beginning was great (and tbh the only reason I'm not giving this book a 0 star rating) it was fast and steady.
Overall, there's a way of making dark comedy without just literally offending every single subculture you can think of. I was excited to read a novel by a hispanic, gay author but now I feel extremely disappointed and embarrassed for my own communities.
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Death, Fatphobia, Homophobia, Infidelity, Misogyny, Racial slurs, Racism, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, and Murder
Moderate: Drug use, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide attempt, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail