Just by Looking at Him managed to be funny, often darkly so, while highlighting important issues - like the impact of disability (cerebral palsy) and ableism. It’s an exploration of the intersection of disability and sexuality through the lens of a gay tv writer who has addiction issues. It’s sexually explicit so reader beware. I was sometimes horrified by the blatant ableism and other times pulled up short by issues and situations I personally have never had to consider. Sometimes I was frustrated by Elliott’s self-sabotaging and deceptive behaviour but thankfully his story arc was one of growth. An engaging and propulsive read.