As RuPaul once said If you can’t love yourself how the hell you gunna love somebody else. Can I get an amen up in here?!? Elliott has some good points but doubles back a lot because of his own insecurities with himself and how the world views people with disabilities/gay men specifically cis white men. Feels a lot like his other book but sometimes you gotta write what you know. Lot of pop references so if you love Bravo Entertainment and light gay dialogue enjoy.