I'm really not sure that I understood this book at all, but I am glad that I read it. I don't know how you can be unsure if you got the point and still be glad you read it, but there it is. The truth is, the book was better about confusion and uncertainty and the pain of trying to process your life as you continue living it and not knowing where any of the roads leading and looking back and realizing what you thought you got you maybe didn't, or maybe you got something else. I liked it. I just don't know if I got it.