A book that provides useful emphasis upon the magic essentialism of the relationships one shares to, and with, other people. Laying to rest fantastical projections of people's characters while attempting to connect with them, as well as highlighting the human tendency to mistake familiarity for truth were guiding principles that stuck out to me. 

I liked the structure of the book chapters, it flowed organically and makes revisiting the book appealing as one would know how to orient themselves. And I would return to it when needed!