I consider myself a pretty savvy lady when it comes to sex, and on almost every page, my mind was blown with new information. I love the author's gentle, conversational style in speaking about sometimes very hard, painful things. The book also has personal stories from a whole variety of people woven throughout, so the more scientific information can really land in a deeper, more integrated way. This is how you write an accessible science book! And what a great topic. Truly a fantastic book. Everyone should read it, regardless of where you land on the gender spectrum and/or beyond it. There are gifts here for everyone.