I can't imagine what it would be like to grow up in such a family dynamic as well as in the public eye via a reality show.
I can see how it would shape so much of your formative years, and not in a good way.
To read that Jill is working hard towards healing is heartwarming and gives hope to others who may be in a similar situation (as far as family dynamics; the reality TV show part is a whole other ball of wax).
It's unfortunate that these young women from these families don't get any real chance to see who they are before they become wives and mothers but hopefully their partners allow them that space within their present dynamics.