The author explores his childhood and "the boogeyman" that followed him throughout his life, whether it was his Blackness, his economic status, his queerness. I really enjoyed his reflections on spirituality and his relationship with religion as he grows up and comes to terms with his identity.

This feels like it would be a nice companion piece to All Boys Aren't Blue - another YA memoir exploring growing up Black and queer. I really enjoyed this format and the audiobook was wonderful.

I only wish there had been a little more? Maybe an extended epilogue. I feel like we were left hanging with the "what happens after". I wanted to know more about the author's relationships with his family. Did he come out? How did he navigate that?